Merry Christmas 2011

Ahhh....remembering one of our favorite Christmases in 2009!

We had a lovely Christmas Day and were blessed by a special church service and a visit to some American friends!

This is the church we are connected with during our stay in Singapore.  I meant to take pictures of us at church on Christmas, but as usual the camera just wasn't in the right place at the right time, so we'll have to make do with a photo off of their website.

We were due at our friend's house for Christmas dinner at 1 pm and indeed we left church early so we could make it on time.  I spent about 20 minutes on hold with a taxi company only to be told that no taxis were available.  A kind lady from church spent an additional 10 minutes on hold with a different company to be told the same.  Then we slowly figured out which bus to take to the train station for a 40 minute train ride to our friend's neighborhood and a short walk to their 5th floor flat.  We didn't get there until after 2 pm, but there was plenty of food left! 

Christmas with the Whittakers

Danny and Betsy Whittaker were barely acquaintances of mine when they attended First Baptist Church in Lebanon in the early 2000s.  I was mostly in Kalimantan at the time.  They moved to Singapore 7 years ago, where Danny teaches math at the International Community School.  Their 5 year old son, Aaron, is Jonathan's hero.  We've gotten to know Danny and Betsy better during our transits through Singapore over the last year -- they even bravely put us up in their spare bedroom for 2 nights last July when we were stranded due to a connecting flight mess-up  They inspire us.  Betsy's parents, Frank and Susie, were also visiting from Othello, WA for a few weeks.   Thanks for a wonderful Christmas Day, Whittakers!

The Patrow family Christmas Tree 2011

Merry Christmas 2011!!

This is our Christmas tree this year and the only Christmas decoration in our dwelling!   For me, it's quite minimalist (kind of Charlie Brown), but we are thankful for it!  It is a Jesse Tree.

The Jesse Tree is a devotional book that starts on the first Sunday of Advent and has a short devotional for each day until Christmas.  The devotions start with a promise of the Messiah in Isaiah 11:  "There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of Jesse, and a branch shall grow out of his roots."  It then goes from creation to the birth of Jesus, "tracing the spiritual history of Christ."  Each day has a symbolic ornament.  We are using photocopies and double-stick tape this year ....we might get more sophisticated the next day we do the Jesse tree in a few years.  Check out these beautiful ideas on Pinterest for non-Charlie-Brown versions! 

Close-up of the toddler-mommy artwork on our tree! 

So to give you a few examples of the symbolism:

The building represents Solomon's temple and his humble request for wisdom from the Lord.
The heart represents God's word in the hearts of His people, as described in Jeremiah 31:31-34.
The Lion represents the story of Daniel and the Lion's Den.

Back at home, we were also enjoying lighting the candles of our Advent wreath every night at dinner.  Alas candles are not allowed in high rise apartments, and I can't find any battery operated ones .....so our Advent wreath is packed away for now.

Singapore -- post 1

Jonathan exploring the adult exercise equipment next to one of the playgrounds in the HDB apartment complex where we are staying.

Jonathan and I arrived in Singapore on December 10, and Dave has now joined us on December 17!  We will remain here until several weeks after the birth -- when documentation is complete and everyone is strong enough to travel.  

The first week I was caring for Jonathan by myself and also immersed in settling in.  There is always a big learning curve, and a "search-and-gather" to do.

God has provided an amazing place for us to stay -- totally unlike anything we would have imagined when we were first praying about coming here!  We find His provision to be very good indeed!

We are staying in what is known as an HDB apartment -- Singapore's version of public housing projects.  It's affordable housing built by the government.  I know the 2 bedroom flat we are staying in has been owned by the family for 35 years.  When they bought it the price was $7000 Singapore.  It is now worth $300,000.  The "projects" in Singapore are actually quite nice -- equipped with plenty of greenery, excellent playgrounds for children and exercise equipment for adults, frequent garbage pick-up, regular mosquito control measures, and good maintenance.  I really can't believe the flat we're staying in is old .....it looks very new.  Also, the first floor of most of the buildings are packed with community services such as senior centers, early childhood centers, daycares, and the like.  Our building happens to be right next door to a large police station!

Wow!  There are 3 toddler-appropriate playgrounds within really close walking distance of our flat, and about 5 more within slightly further walking distance.  It's SO nice for a pregnant momma with a very wiggly 2 year old!

Our host, Gene, helps Jonathan climb up a play structure.

We are staying in a flat with "Sister Gene," a 51 year old Mandarin Chinese Singaporean lady.  She is a precious women who is "renting" the 2 bedrooms of her home to us.  She is sleeping on a cot in the living room.   It's working out fine.  I'll explain more of that story in another blog update that will be posted soon ....I've already started it.  We look forward to getting to know this devoted Christian woman more deeply.  She is quiet, doesn't speak much English, and an introvert like us. 

Gene is a private tutor who gives Mandarin lessons to primary and secondary students.  She loves children and they have been her life's work and ministry.  She likes Jonathan too, although toddlers are a bit out of her scope of practice.  Like many single people in Singapore, Gene does very little cooking.  It's at least as cheap to eat at the "hawker center" (translate: food court) across the street as it is to buy food, supply a kitchen, and cook.  So, we pretty much have the run of the kitchen, which is convenient.  There is a "wet market" (stalls of fruits, vegetables, meats, spices), a bunch of shops, and a grocery store so very close to our flat, so buying groceries is no problem.  We haven't really explored the food courts yet because of my diet restrictions ....and no real desire yet to find menu items that don't contain fish heads or other undesirables. 

We are having some culture adjustment here.  Singapore, although very diverse ethnically, is known as being a mainly English speaking country.  That's not true here in the Bedok neighborhood!  We find that very FEW people can speak English, and even fewer can understand OUR English (nor can we understand theirs). 

Bamboo pole laundry

Okay, so here's something fun about the laundry skills I am learning!  Most everyone has a washing machine, but few have dryers.  Instead, each family has a collection of bamboo poles.  Outside the kitchen windows are special slots for holding the poles out in the sunlight and breeze.  Special giant clothespins are used to clip on the clothes.  It's a process to get the clothes on the poles without dropping them on the floor 500 times and then to heave the wet-laundry loaded poles out the window into the slots without dropping them to the ground so far below!  Of course the other skill is to grab them back in quick when it starts raining!   The kitchen has hooks on the ceiling for inside drying too. 

Until next time!

Last family photos before leaving town

Yep, it's been a whole month since I've blogged anything! 

We've mostly been slowly preparing for our transition to Singapore ....I have a history of not "leaving well" and wanted to try SO hard to do it right this time.  I had a lot of little projects to complete at home ....it will be TWO MONTHS before we arrive home with baby, but I need his nursery (translate: corner of the master bedroom) etc to be ready now!  I finished quite a few low priority but important-to-me projects that I knew would NEVER get done if I waited until after the baby.  Then there were all of the arrangements for the house, the house-sitter (required by our employer), packing things away safely.  Lastly, but most importantly, all the arrangements for Singapore:  housing pre-planning, communicating with medical people, and packing!  It's a challenge for me to manage all this!

For Dave, this "preparation" time has been preparing 2 months of lesson plans for his substitute teachers.  Thank you Greg, Scott and Sue!  They will be filling in for his classes on top of their regular full-time jobs at Mountainview. 

It's been a real challenge to manage the gestational diabetes (GDM) the last month or so, and it has been time consuming to get it back under control.   My blood sugar was out of control for a few weeks, unbeknownst to me, because of defective testing equipment.   After talking with a few knowledgeable friends (Thank you Calista and Maria!) , we finally decided I should start taking medication (Metformin) to help in the last few weeks of pregnancy and take the pressure off during the transition to Singapore.  I finally have a loaner blood sugar machine from my Singapore doctor, accurate strips and so far the test results haven't been too bad.  With my past pregnancies, I would have firmly resisted the medication but this time I am relieved to use it because there are so many variables out of my control. 

The night before Jonathan and I left for Singapore, I had a sudden pre-separation anxiety ....what if this is the last time our family is together?  I insisted that, in the rush, we try to get some family photos.

This first one -- the propping-the-camara-on-the-fence-with-timer-test-shot -- makes me laugh!

This next one is probably the best of the bunch and I will use it in our next newsletter.

And of course an updated 34+ week pregnant tummy shot:

Just for fun, here is a picture of 34+ week pregnant tummy with Jonathan in Oct 2009:

Yes, I am definitely a slightly different shape this time.  I think it's because two year old boys still need their pregnant mommies to carry them around, and indeed their pregnant mommies need that too.  So, Jonathan has been sitting on his baby brother quite a lot, and something (my insides) got moved somewhere to make room!  I remember once seeing a similarly-shaped pregnant mom in Walla Walla and thinking she looked a bit strange.  Now I know why....she obviously still had a toddler or two at home. 

Blessings to all who are reading!  We are so thankful to God's goodness to us in all of this!

Jonna is TWO!

We very much feel that we chose the right name for our "gift of God" Jonathan.  Our little big boy is also living up more and more to his middle name, Isaac, which means laughter.  The hilarity of toddlerhood has me chuckling halfway through the day and Dave dancing with Jonathan in the evenings. 

Jonathan has started calling himself "Jonna," which is more user friendly for the toddler tongue.  His birthday was yesterday (Thursday) and we hope to have friends over for cake and ice cream on Saturday.  We opened a few little presents from Mommy and Daddy, but haven't had a chance to purchase the BIG gift, which will be a tricycle -- but don't tell him.  It's a surprise!  We still have 2 presents that came in the mail from grandparents in America, and we want to share the moment with them over a Skype video call when we all can get on the computer at the same time. 

Happy Birthday Jonathan!  He's pretty excited by the candle on his cake this year! 

He still needs help blowing it out though!

A proud mommy has to show off new skills!  We tried a couple of new things on Jonathan's birthday  -- painting with water colors.....

and peeling his own little mandaran oranges!  "More orange please!"  As you can see by the pile, he's about on his  6th one!

What a difference a year makes!

Wow, what a difference TWO years makes!

Angkota Adventure! It worked!

Well today Jonathan and I had another first -- quite an amazing one!   We have been out of cash for a few days and a trip to the bank was in order. 

An angkota is a little blue city minibus.  It travels a loop on a certain route all day.  The seating inside is benches all around and the door never closes ....EVER.  One way to anywhere is 25 cents.  (Not my picture.  I got it off the web.)

(Background information) When Jonathan was little, I used to wear him in an Ergo baby backpack.  It worked well on the angkota and he could be content in it for 3 hours at a time, with a break here or there.  Then he started getting too wiggly, bored, and fussy.  For a time I just decided not to take him to town in the angkota at all.  Then my mom got us a nifty little stroller that folds up easy-peasy.  I can roll him down to the bus-stop, fold up the stroller with one hand, heft him onto my hip with the other, get on, hold him on my lap to destination, and do the reverse steps getting off.    This required knowing the location of the stroller friendly sidewalks in town.  There are not too many of them, but I could manage from the bus-stop to the bank to the pharmacy and back across the street to catch the bus home. 

Now in advanced pregnancy, it hurts to even think about going to town on the angkota with Jonathan.  Everything seems so heavy and my pelvis just isn't as strong as it used to be.  I usually am limping the next day.  Not many of our friends have cars though and motorcycles are not an option for us either .....so on the angkota we go....just not as frequently as before.

Now that Jonathan is such a big boy, I decided to try something new and you know what?  He IS a big boy now and he did just fine!  We left the stroller at home and HE WALKED all the way to the bus-stop and around town and on-and-off the angkota several times, in and out of several stores, and all the way up the hill from the bus-stop to home!  We used his favorite red Elmo toddler harness, which he loves, but he also held my hand about half the time.  The only time I carried him was crossing the street.  It really decreased the physical burden, there was no fussing, and we both still had energy when we came home!  He even had dry pants!  I was so proud of him! 

Sorry, I don't have any pictures from today -- I haven't yet figured out how to manage Jonathan and myself and my belongings AND a camera.

But for those of you who are wondering how the belly is growing, I'll attach a picture from this last week.  Enjoy!

30 weeks pregnant with Baby Brother! 

Milestones of Toddlerhood

A quick blogpost so there is something new on here for the faithful who check!

(Sorry, Singapore plans and 3rd trimester fatigue have caused blog-neglect)

MOVE TO TODDLER BED -- a sudden change in the middle of the night, and here he is waking up in the first morning in his Big Boy Bed!

TODDLER ROOM DECOR -- time for some Big Boy stuff, glow in the dark planets and stars!

AND SO IT BEGINS -- I just hope we don't get any apple trees or bean sprouts growing up there!  (See he thinks I ought to try it too -- it's fun!)

A NEW APPRECIATION FOR STICKERS -- Yep, if you're sending us a care package, throw in a sticker sheet or two.  It will be a big hit!

BOYS and LEGOS and TOWERS -- Okay, they are Duplo blocks, but so fun!

FOOD PREFERENCES:  Loves Broccoli but suddenly doesn't want anything to do with beef stew, which used to be a favorite?  Hmmm.