The Muslim community in our neighborhood recently celebrated
Idul Ahda, or the Day of Sacrifice. On
the Sunday before the holiday, Dave joined the neighborhood work party to cut
the grass and rake leaves in the field adjoining our local mosque. It is custom to have a work party, kerja bakti, every month and Dave joins
when he can. A few days later the
neighborhood children, including our own, were delighted to see 6 goats and 2
cows grazing there. I didn't have the
heart to tell Jonathan they would be slaughtered on the spot the next morning
…maybe next year when he's five. On weeks like this I just want to be a vegetarian.
The night before Idul Adha is one of the noisiest of the
year -- even more so than the eve of Idul Fitri, when the adults are tired
after a month of fasting. Starting at
6:30 pm, parades of batik-clad children rotate the streets to the beat of drums
and Islamic music. Then the volume is
turned up on the mosque speakers and the chanting begins. First the boys of the community take turns,
and then the men, for several hours.
"Allahu Akbar," the
takbir, over and over. Oh, and did I mention there were also fireworks? About 10 pm or
so, the community leaves the mosque and someone puts on a recording which keeps
the chant going at high volume…..all….night….long….until 8 am or so when it is
time for the sacrifice to begin.
As outsiders not involved in the festivities, this is a hard night for us. We worry about the boys sleeping. They did, though. Jonathan slept through the night without any problems. Joshua I did give some antihistamine because we are night weaning him and I felt he needed a little extra help. Dave puts in his earplugs PLUS noise reducing headphones with white noise playing. He even slept with the ear muffs for part of the night. I don't hear the sound quite as much as Dave, but it does get wearying after several hours and especailly in bed when it's finally time to go to sleep. And every hour waking up to hear it still and then try to go back to sleep again. When the speakers are finally turned off in the morning, the silence is truly golden!
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In the morning, honored men in the community take turns reading special passages from the Koran while the animals are killed. Finally the speakers are quiet at 9 am and the men and women are busy for several hours butchering the meat, cleaning the entrails, cooking rice and stews. There is a community feast, and portions of meat are divided to all and special attention to the poor.
As outsiders not involved in the festivities, this is a hard night for us. We worry about the boys sleeping. They did, though. Jonathan slept through the night without any problems. Joshua I did give some antihistamine because we are night weaning him and I felt he needed a little extra help. Dave puts in his earplugs PLUS noise reducing headphones with white noise playing. He even slept with the ear muffs for part of the night. I don't hear the sound quite as much as Dave, but it does get wearying after several hours and especailly in bed when it's finally time to go to sleep. And every hour waking up to hear it still and then try to go back to sleep again. When the speakers are finally turned off in the morning, the silence is truly golden!
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In the morning, honored men in the community take turns reading special passages from the Koran while the animals are killed. Finally the speakers are quiet at 9 am and the men and women are busy for several hours butchering the meat, cleaning the entrails, cooking rice and stews. There is a community feast, and portions of meat are divided to all and special attention to the poor.
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| The neighborhood women working on the smaller pieces. |
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| The men working on the larger pieces, the 2 cows. |
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| Nothing is wasted. Here a group of men have the special job of cleaning the entrails. Cows have 4 stomachs. There were 2 cows and 6 goals. That was a lot of entrails. |
Dave stopped by the mosque midway through the morning to say
hi to the neighbors. It really is a
festive scene with all of the community working together to prepare the
meat. The price of meat has been going up, up, up at the markets so it is a real treat to have so much meat in one day. I suppose, to the typical person here,
it's a bit like Thanksgiving. For us,
the entire sensory experience is a cultural stressor but it is a good time to
interact with our neighbors and build rapport. We were invited to the feast, but didn't feel quite comfortable enough to join. To our surprise, later that afternoon a portion of meat (a mix of cow, goat, and entrails) was delivered to our house too! Interestingly enough, in our neighborhood there are perhaps 8 ex-pat families but none are very active in the neighborhood activities. To be honest, we are not that active either, but we are trying to increase our involvement.







































